Thursday, 19 October 2023

A Journey of Hope: From Syria to Turkey

Welcome aboard on a journey that takes us back 11 years when my family and I embarked on a life-changing adventure. As I reflect on it now, it's astonishing how time can both fly by and stand still, all at once. We found ourselves in Turkey, fleeing the ongoing war in Syria, and this was the beginning of our time-traveling trip.

## Chapter 1: The Decision

It all began when the war in Syria was raging, and my entire family was still living there. No one had left the country yet, except for one of my uncles, who had sought refuge in Turkey. Turkey and Syria share a border, and during his visit, he convinced my mother to consider the possibility of a better life in Turkey. She agreed.

We started packing our belongings – clothes and personal items. We didn't carry much, but the car's trunk was filled to the brim. I was just a kid, blissfully unaware of the trials that lay ahead. I was excited because I thought we were going on my first holiday, but reality quickly shattered that illusion.

## Chapter 2: The Journey

After tearful goodbyes with family, we set out on a long journey to Turkey. My uncle took the wheel of my mom's car, and we began the drive, facing frequent stops due to military checkpoints. These stops were necessary to ensure we weren't carrying any explosives. While I can't recall the exact duration of the drive, I remember it being a lengthy and tense journey. But we made it safely in the end.

## Chapter 3: Life in Turkey

Our new home was my uncle's rented house, which was modestly sized but comfortable. We were fortunate to have a friendly landlord, and even though we couldn't speak Turkish initially, we could sense the warmth of the people we met. I didn't attend school immediately because our arrival coincided with the second semester, and I wouldn't have understood much anyway.

Summer arrived, and my younger brother and I spent our days at the nearby park. The gardener's two sons, close in age to my brother, became our playmates. Language barriers disappeared as we played and connected.

## Chapter 4: Making Friends

As the summer wore on, I started feeling the absence of my friends and family from back home. That's when I met Sanem, a lovely girl whom I often encountered at the park. Our interactions began with smiles, eventually evolving into a mix of English and Turkish conversations. We spent our days exploring the park, talking, and enjoying each other's company. Funny enough, I still have a picture of the park that was across from where we stayed, a cherished memento of those beautiful moments we shared.

Turkey didn't feel too foreign to me, perhaps because the city resembled Aleppo, or maybe because many Syrian refugees had also made their way here. We all held onto the hope that the conflict would end soon, but little did we know that it would be an 11-year journey and counting.

## Chapter 5: Learning Turkish

Six months into our stay in Turkey, my Turkish language skills improved dramatically. People often asked if I lived here for an extended period, and they were surprised when I revealed it had only been six months. I even joined an Arabic school run by a Turkish teacher and my former high school head teacher.

## Chapter 6: A Reunion

The last month in Turkey brought a heartwarming reunion. My grandparents and aunt managed to visit us, and the memory of that day is etched into my soul. The photo was snapped on the family's second day as we enjoyed breakfast in the shared garden of our apartment. Now, all those memories are rushing back, filling me with the fond recollection of those precious moments. Family is a priceless gift, and if you still have the opportunity to spend time with your loved ones, seize it. The days will inevitably slip away, and you may come to regret not fully appreciating these cherished moments. Their visit was bittersweet, as we knew it would be challenging to see them once we left for Italy. 

## Conclusion:

Our time in Turkey was filled with challenges and new friendships. It was a significant chapter in our lives, and the hope for a better future was our guiding light. The next part of our journey took us to Italy, and I invite you to stay tuned for the next chapter in this incredible journey.

 

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